Every Sunday morning Crystal was dressed and ready for church before the van arrived at her home. She attended Sunday School with a smile, but without her parents. Every Sunday morning Crystal was dressed and ready for church before the van arrived at her home. She attended Sunday School with a smile, but without her parents.  During the worship service, an adult would sit with her and the other children. After all, a four-year-old can sit still only for so long. When the sermon was finished and the invitation given, Crystal was sure to run to the front of the sanctuary, bow down and begin to pray. As a first-time, very young and very green pastor, I thought it was cute as the little girl came forward. However, after several weeks I began to worry she just wanted attention.  During the week, I was praying about how to handle the situation. The Holy Spirit impressed on me to pray with her instead of stopping her.  The next Sunday I was ready. As I gave the invitation, Crystal made her way to the little red steps leading up to the platform. I knelt down with her and said, “Crystal, what are you praying for?” She replied, “For my mom and dad to get saved.” Over the next four years, Crystal prayed and our church … [Read more...]

Susan hadn’t been able to concentrate since Jeff called earlier in the day. “The kids are staying at your mom’s this weekend. Can you get away a little early?” Her heart skipped a beat when she saw her husband’s car in the driveway with the trunk open. What did Jeff have planned? Life had certainly been interesting lately!At one time their marriage had been cooling ashes — not the blazing passion of earlier years. Trudging through the humdrum of life had shifted their focus from thriving to surviving mode. The closest thing to surprise in their relationship was whether someone was going to pick up chicken or burgers for supper. Susan hadn’t been able to concentrate since Jeff called earlier in the day. “The kids are staying at your mom’s this weekend. Can you get away a little early?” Her heart skipped a beat when she saw her husband’s car in the driveway with the trunk open. What did Jeff have planned? Life had certainly been interesting lately!At one time their marriage had been cooling ashes — not the blazing passion of earlier years. Trudging through the humdrum of life had shifted their focus from thriving to surviving mode. The closest thing to surprise in their relationship was whether someone was going to pick up … [Read more...]

My desire to entertain guests dwindled as my family continued to grow. I would herd my children from room to room trying to make the house look decent. I worried if the chicken was overcooked or if my guests would notice the stains on the carpet. Eventually the pain of preparation outweighed the pleasure of receiving guests. My desire to entertain guests dwindled as my family continued to grow. I would herd my children from room to room trying to make the house look decent. I worried if the chicken was overcooked or if my guests would notice the stains on the carpet. Eventually the pain of preparation outweighed the pleasure of receiving guests. It was then that I heard the still small voice of the Holy Spirit asking, “Are you preparing to bless or impress your company?” Ouch! My good intentions were shrouded by my desire to impress my guests with external appearances rather than focusing on the internal spiritual state. I was more like Martha who allowed the distractions of housekeeping to take precedence over listening to Jesus (Luke 10:40). The Holy Spirit’s question was a defining moment for me as I came face to face with a sad truth — by trying to make a good impression, I was failing God and my family. This … [Read more...]

Have you ever wanted to ask a question and did not know who to ask? Sometimes we might not even know what we really want to ask. The Louisiana Baptist Message felt it would be helpful to write a series of articles about counseling and family health issues. My plan is to pick different topics and the most frequently asked questions that I hear. Have you ever wanted to ask a question and did not know who to ask? Sometimes we might not even know what we really want to ask. The Louisiana Baptist Message felt it would be helpful to write a series of articles about counseling and family health issues. My plan is to pick different topics and the most frequently asked questions that I hear. My name is Gary Greene and I am the Director of Counseling at the Granberry Counseling Centers. Granberry is a ministry of the Louisiana Baptist Children’s Home and Family Ministries. Some of the topics that I will attempt to answer are things like what is Christian Counseling?  What are the signs of depression? How can I beat feeling anxious? How can we improve communication skills in our marriage? How does the Bible tell us to resolve a conflict?  How can we benefit from relaxation?  How might we enrich our marriages? How can we parent … [Read more...]

Let the year 2009 be the year you get personally involved in missions and ministry. ALEXANDRIA – Let the year 2009 be the year you get personally involved in missions and ministry. Missions is what is done for/with/to people outside the local church family. Ministry is what is done to nurture, build up and encourage the body of believers, most often within the local church walls. There’s scriptural admonition for both: Missions: “But my life is worth nothing unless I use it for doing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus – the work of telling others the Good News about God’s wonderful kindness and love.” – (Acts 20:24 NLT)  Ministry: “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up as you are already doing.” –  (I Thessalonians 5:11, HCSB  Here are 99 ways you can be the hands and feet of Christ in this coming year. It is not an exhaustive list – see No. 100 – and the ideas can be used by families, church mission groups – girls, women, boys, men – and individuals. Yes, individuals. God often gives one person a passion, and when others see the good that’s being done, they want to get involved. Let God use you in 2009! Prepare welcome baskets for new families in your neighborhood. Along with … [Read more...]

The day after his basketball team lost 100-63 to Troy State, Northwestern State University Coach Mike McConathy took his entire team to Sunday services at First Baptist Church in Natchitoches. “Expect great things from God and attempt great things for God.” – William Carey, Baptist missionary to India NATCHITOCHES – The day after his basketball team lost 100-63 to Troy State, Northwestern State University Coach Mike McConathy took his entire team to Sunday services at First Baptist Church in Natchitoches. “I’m sure some of the kids were upset that I made them get up and go to church following the lopsided loss, and long bus ride home,” McConathy said. “But I was trying to make a point.” On this particular Sunday, he gathered his team before entering the church and explained what he was doing. “I said, ‘Guys, I know you think I brought you here as punishment, but you are wrong. I want you to know people here (at First Natchitoches) love you whether you lose by one or by 20.  “‘God doesn’t care whether you win or lose, but whether or not you have used your talents and skills to the very best of your abilities,’” McConathy said. “Therefore, you need to spend time to honor and thank Him.’ “It was interesting to see … [Read more...]

Prayer is what all mankind seems to do, regardless of religious persuasion, when confronted with something beyond their ability with which to cope, comprehend or control. Prayer is what all mankind seems to do, regardless of religious persuasion, when confronted with something beyond their ability with which to cope, comprehend or control. Currently, the members of Hamas pray that their rockets will seek out and destroy as many Israelis as possible. The Israelis pray not only that they will be protected from the Hamas bombs, but they will also be empowered to destroy their enemies. Entered into this mix are those of us who are called Christians who pray for resolution between the two warring factions. The question is, “What are we all doing when we pray?” The American Heritage Dictionary defines prayer as a “reverent petition made to God.” It appears that prayer lives or dies not with the petitioner but rather with the one who is being petitioned. Making the assumption that those of us who are reading this article are Christian gives cause to read Genesis 4:26: “At that time men began to call on the name of the Lord.” At the time the aforementioned passage was recorded, God was characterized by the name … [Read more...]

Question: What is the “unpardonable sin” really about and where is it found in the Bible? Is it related to divorce, or suicide, or something else? Question: What is the “unpardonable sin” really about and where is it found in the Bible?  Is it related to divorce, or suicide, or something else? Bill Warren answers: The adage that “if you’re worried about having committed the unpardonable sin, you haven’t” is actually more biblical than most realize, as can be seen by looking at the Bible’s teaching regarding the “unpardonable sin.”  The primary texts are found in Mark 3:28-30 and the parallel passages in Matt.12:31-33 and Luke 12:10, with the wording in Mark 3:28-29 being the basis for the concept of the “unpardonable sin:” I assure you: people will be forgiven for all sins and whatever blasphemies they may blaspheme.  But whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit never has forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin’–because they were saying, ‘He has an unclean spirit.’ The larger context for this passage runs from Mark 3:20-31.  Jesus’ popularity was skyrocketing with large crowds gathering, such that even some of his family members (perhaps extended family, but we can’t be sure of that) were becoming worried by … [Read more...]

Louisiana Southern Baptist Churches celebrating anniversaries this year include: 25th Anniversary El Camino, Metairie Emmanuel Hispanic, Monroe 50th Anniversary Calvary, Slidell Calvary, Tullos Crossgate, Robert Emmanuel, Minden Faith, Bastrop Fellowship, Monroe First, St. Rose Haynes Ave., Shreveport Satsuma, Livingston Trinity, Many 75th Anniversary Calvary of Gardner, Boyce Center Point, West Monroe Clayton, Clayton Diamond, DeRidder Elmwood, Lake Providence Freedom Rest, Anacoco Mt. Bethel, Leesville New Zion, Oak Grove Springhill, Grayson 100th Anniversary East Fork, Kentwood First, Pitkin First, Kinder Main St., Bogalusa 125th Anniversary Beulah, Farmerville First, Crowville Gravel Hill, Pitkin Green Oak, Merryville Hunter Magnolia, Mansfield Oak Grove, Eros Oak Grove, Jonesville Redwood, Slaughter 150th Anniversary New Beulah, Hammond New Union, Tullos Spring Creek, Tullos … [Read more...]

Julia Parker, a member at Calvary Baptist here, is Mission Service Corps coordinator for the Louisiana Baptist Convention. ALEXANDRIA – Julia Parker, a member at Calvary Baptist here, is Mission Service Corps coordinator for the Louisiana Baptist Convention. A part of the Missions and Ministries team led by Mike Canady, Parker stepped in August 2007 into shoes previously worn by Cherry Blackwell and Phyllis Rabalais. “It’s so important for us as a state to support Mission Service Corps missionaries,” Parker said. “They really are missionaries – sent by God to serve others.” Mission Service Corps – which usually is known as MSC – is an opportunity for people in Louisiana to serve for a minimum of two years in a ministry assignment anywhere in North America, including Louisiana, or for anyone in the world to serve in a 2-year or longer ministry assignment in Louisiana. MSC missionaries are commissioned by their local church, endorsed by the Southern Baptist Convention’s North American Mission Board, and privately funded. Some are able to serve because of retirement income, trust fund, insurance settlement or the sale of assets; others, because they receive support from family, friends, churches and perhaps elsewhere. … [Read more...]